Hardest Things About Marriage

Marriage is not the fairytale that people often see in movies. In real life, couples do not stay together and keep the spark alive effortlessly for decades. Marriage takes a lot of hard work.

Being in a relationship may sound fun, and it is in many ways. However, marriage definitely won’t be a breeze. There will be difficult parts. There will be arguments. There may even be thoughts of divorce.

When deciding to get married, it’s important to understand what to expect. Here are some of the hardest things about marriage.

There May Be Constant Arguments

You and your spouse may argue a lot. It’s good in some ways because at least you are communicating. When there are no fights, it often means something is amiss. And the arguments may be about the same boring topics, such as money, children, and chores. It’s not fun or glamorous at all.

Life Gets Boring

As mentioned above, marriage is not always fun and exciting. Everyday life sneaks in and can make you feel bored and uninterested. You’ll need to get out of the routine once in a while and do things to keep the spark alive.

Intimacy is Not Always Easy

Sex is not something that magically happens every day. Everyday life can cause a lot of stress and general exhaustion, making it hard to focus on intimacy. Expect the spark to wane over time, but that doesn’t signal the end of your marriage. Just be patient and willing to work things out.

There May Be Resentment

 It’s not uncommon for one or both partners to feel resentment toward the other in some way. In a lot of cases, it’s the little things that get you frustrated and build up over time. Resentment often grows quietly, so the trick is to get a hold on it before it grows into something toxic. Open and honest conversations can reduce the tension.

You See Your Partner at Their Worst

Once you’ve been married for a while, the honeymoon is over. You see your spouse unfiltered, at their worst. You’ll see them vulnerable, stressed out, and angry. It won’t be fun, but you’ll have to learn to support each other during these times.

There’s No Breathing Room

Remember, you don’t have to spend every moment together. Don’t forget to take time for yourself. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder.

People Change

You and your partner will change, and change can be hard. Change can be a good thing, so learn to grow together instead of apart. Be curious about your partner.

Seek Legal Help

Marriage isn’t easy. It’s not something you can put on autopilot. It requires both parties to be active and put in effort. It can be boring or challenging.

Once marriage gets too hard and nobody puts in the right effort, it can become stale and full of resentment. If divorce is in the cards, get the help you need from Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer Edward J. Jennings, P.A. We have represented hundreds of clients in family law matters and can help you as well. To schedule a consultation, call 954-764-4330 or fill out the online form.

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