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Keeping Your Marriage Strong To Avoid Divorce


Close to half of all marriages end in divorce. While there are no guarantees when it comes to marriage, there are things you can do to prevent divorce. By being proactive, you can do your best to beat the odds.

Relationship satisfaction changes over the years. It’s strong in the 20s, as new relationships form. By the time we hit our 40s, though, dissatisfaction sets in. We realize that life is finite. We have regrets about our choice of partner and life in general. Parenthood can also be a factor, as those with children tend to be less satisfied than those without children.

Satisfaction then increases until age 65, which is when many people retire. This is also when many health issues start to crop up, making life (and marriage) difficult.

However, if you keep making the commitment to keep your marriage strong, you can continue to stay married as you experience major life changes. Here are some ways to keep your marriage chugging along as you reach age 50, 60, 70, 80, and beyond.

Be Friends

You can have best friends outside of the marriage, but your spouse should be more than just a lover. They should be someone you can do things and have fun with.

Be a Couple and an Individual

It’s good for you and your spouse to do things together, but you should also be able to do things on your own. You can still do things that your spouse doesn’t enjoy doing. Don’t lose your identity.

Try New Things

While you should be an individual, don’t knock something until you’ve tried it. Be open to new things. If your spouse enjoys something, try it for yourself before you say no. Who knows — you might like it.

Be Open About Sex

Sex is not as taboo as it used to be. Don’t be embarrassed to talk to your spouse about sex. What do you enjoy? Be open and honest about your wants and needs. That’s the only way to make sex even more enjoyable as you get older.

Be Supportive

You should be able to count on your spouse to be there for you. In return, you should also support them and be a shoulder for them to cry on when they need it. Be happy for them when they succeed and be supportive when they fail. Avoid shaming and blaming.

Accept That Things Will Change

Relationships need to be dynamic because people do change over time. As people get older, they experience more things and might change their values and interests. Your marriage will need to be flexible to accommodate these changes.

Seek Legal Help

Marriages take a lot of work. They need to be tended to constantly or else conflict can come about and ruin the relationship.

If you don’t keep your marriage strong, it could end in divorce. Count on Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer Edward J. Jennings, P.A. to help you get through all the various elements involved. Call  954-764-4330 or fill out the online form to schedule a consultation.



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