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Ways To Cope With A Divorce


A divorce is a huge life event that can lead to a variety of emotions. A person can feel intense emotions, from anger to sadness to confusion to relief. As you experience these emotions, you may feel as though you can’t cope.

While it may be hard to think about the future when a relationship ends, you can cope and you’ll be OK. There are things you can do to get through this difficult time.

Just Let Yourself Feel

Instead of trying to bottle up your feelings or using substances to feel better, just let yourself feel your emotions. If you feel sad, cry it out. Feeling angry? Get a punching bag to release your anger. You will feel various emotions, so don’t be shy about expressing them. This is a normal part of the grief process. You’ll feel better in time.

Get Support From Others

You don’t have to deal with a divorce on your own. Lean on friends and family for support. Make sure to talk about your feelings with others. You may feel like being alone all the time, but all this does is increase stress and get in the way of your work and personal life. Join a support group if you need to, but don’t keep your feelings bottled up.

Avoid Arguments With Your Ex

If you can’t discuss anything with your ex without it turning into an argument, then don’t engage. Walk away or hang up and make plans to talk at a different time.

Explore Your Interests

One of the best things about divorce is that you have more freedom. You can now do what you want to do. You don’t have to limit yourself because your spouse doesn’t want to do something. Want to learn an instrument, take a class, play a sport, or learn arts and crafts? Go ahead and do it! Your time is now your own.

Have Fun 

Don’t let a divorce stop you from living your life. Laugh and have fun. Don’t forget to socialize. It may be nice to be alone at times, but don’t forget to hang out with friends. Continue to do the things you always enjoyed. You may need to be coerced out of the home, but once you’re out doing things, you’ll usually feel better. 

Take Care of Yourself

Most importantly, don’t forget to take care of yourself. Be sure to eat well and exercise. Exercise is especially helpful, as it can help reduce stress and anxiety. Take time to relax, whether it’s a massage, bubble bath, watching TV, or reading a good book. Avoid using alcohol, drugs, and other substances to cope; they’ll just make you feel worse.

Seek Legal Help

Divorces are not easy. Everyone has different ways of coping, so it’s important to have some mechanisms in place.

Need help dealing with your divorce? Seek legal advice from Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer Edward J. Jennings, P.A. He can guide you through the process with less stress. Schedule a consultation today. Call 954-764-4330 or fill out the online form.


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