Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Staying Together vs. Divorce: Weighing the Pros and Cons
In the heat of the moment, it’s easy for someone to say they’re done and considering divorce. But going through with one is a whole different story. Getting a divorce comes with long-term effects. That’s not to say that staying in a bad marriage is any easier, but like with any decision, you need… Read More »
How COVID Affected Florida Couples
The COVID pandemic was a rough time for many married couples. The pandemic created a lot of stress in terms of school closures, job losses, and lack of travel. Lots of businesses shut down. Many people were stuck in their homes, unable to engage in their favorite activities. Disagreements over the COVID vaccine and… Read More »
Pitfalls of an Uncontested Divorce
If you have decided to end your marriage, you may be considering divorce. And not just any divorce, but an uncontested one. An uncontested divorce means you and your spouse agree to divorce as well as agree on all the main issues, such as property division, spousal support, and child support. This is the… Read More »
Hardest Things About Marriage
Marriage is not the fairytale that people often see in movies. In real life, couples do not stay together and keep the spark alive effortlessly for decades. Marriage takes a lot of hard work. Being in a relationship may sound fun, and it is in many ways. However, marriage definitely won’t be a breeze…. Read More »
Why Some Couples Should Divorce But Don’t
You probably know a few married couples who don’t seem like they even like each other. This can be a sad situation and you may wonder why they’re still together. Why don’t they just divorce and move on already? Love and marriage are complicated. Making the decision to divorce is not always easy. There… Read More »
Regrets of Women in Toxic Marriages
Some people want to end their relationships at the slightest hiccup, while others will try to endure for the long run. However, being in a toxic marriage is no easy task. They may do what they can to try to save their marriage, but the longer they stay, the more sadness, anger, and resentment… Read More »
Divorce Dilemma: Why You Feel Like the Bad Guy
Relationships are complicated, and ending them can be even more complex. In a divorce, it’s not uncommon for both spouses to feel like the bad guy, even when the split is amicable. There are several reasons why this might happen. First, it’s important to understand that divorce is not simple. Whether you have been… Read More »
Divorcing When You Have a Special Needs Child
Parenting is not easy, and things are much harder when you have a child who is disabled in some way. Caring for a special needs child is different and complex in many ways. Things can get even trickier when you decide you want to end your marriage. If you and the other parent are… Read More »
Should I Waive Alimony or Child Support in a Divorce?
Many people want out of their marriages but are scared to divorce due to the nastiness that is often involved. There is often a lot of tension involved, especially when alimony and child support are involved. People don’t typically like paying these ordered amounts, but they are often required by the court if one… Read More »
Marriages More Likely to End When Women Are Breadwinners
Traditionally, men have been the breadwinners, working to provide for their families while the women stayed at home to tend to children and take care of the household. Things have changed dramatically since then. In the past few decades, women have come out of the house and climbed up the corporate ladder. Many women… Read More »